Electric_Banana said:
If my partner wanted to go back there and we could find a comfortable state to settle in maybe. But I think things are cheaper and more practical over here. Back in America it felt like Uncle Sam was in wallet every day.
Meeting through the net is the best and most dangerous way to meet people so folks looking really need to keep themselves keen.
I think what's awesome is that for alot of people whom don't use photographs of themselves, the people they draw in are more genuinely attracted because they're getting to know the individuals for thier hearts and personalities.
I've actually been endeared to quite a few people whom I've never actually seen.
As for 'straight up front' there's never been a time over the six years that I've been with her that she hasn't been by my side in time of need unless she was MIA because of something important.
The only way I can describe her is that she's simpley just 'real.'
That would be a difficult move all round I think,your family is already over there and her's would be back in NZ,it's not like you jump in the Car and drive down the road to visit

And after a while I suppose you'll see NZ as the same?
Here we start to wonder what hare brained idea they'll come up next to bleed us

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The one they've been on now for years is Tolls to use roads,we pay all manner of Taxes for the pleasure of driving a car,they in turn build new roads,WITH our Money then charge us to use them??Something wrong there

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Very dangerous I'd say especially when all both of you acn't see who your talking to,and only got the others word of what they like and don't like.I'll be honest and say,it's not a game I'd play, and really don't want anybody getting close to me,so being that friendly is not on with me.
Mind you though,if I had the Money to afford the trip,I'd fly to LA,but a cheap car and travel around America,and visit my friends I have here,finish up in New York and walk away from the car.
Sounds like your on a winner then,with your ladt there.