I only worked in the family court system for a short time. I honestly could not handle things like this, men refusing to pay child support, all the fighting and people just being so mean to each other. However, the work I did taught me a few things and I can see both sides to a degree.
Here child support is based on your income. I understand that and think that is fair. But in some cases that are few and far between when dealing with wealthy people the amount of child support is silly. Imagine if you will having to pay 20,000 a month for child support for one newborn baby. I know these cases are few but they happen. Yes it is basing it on his income but what baby needs $20,000 a month to survive? In these rare cases, I can help but wonder how much of that money is actually being spent just on the child.
For just regular folk, the amount of child support is a reasonable amount to provide for the child, unless dealing with a low income earner. But again, it's all based on salary. In these cases the women are not using the money on themselves but you would not believe the amount of men who say the woman is wasting it on them. I'm sure some do, but that again is rare.
Another thing I wonder about is this;
A woman can get pregnant and decide to abort a baby, even if the man does not want her to. However, say a couple are together for a few years and the man has always said he did not want kids. Say they used condoms, birth control etc and did all they could to not have a baby. Then say the woman wanted to have a baby so she stopped birth control, poked holes in the condoms etc and she got pregnant. They break up, that man has to pay child support and I do not think that is fair. I know this is rare but it can and does happen. Where are the rights of the man in these cases?
But it breaks my heart to know that there are men out there doing all they can not to pay child support for babies they have willingly made. What kind of messed up person does that?