|
Post in Forums
Create a Profile
Upload Pictures
|
Keep a Journal
Meet Friends
It's FREE!
|
|
Sign Up!
|
Forum Index > News & Politics > Racism | >> To minorities, are you really confortable being the minority. | | |
|
hallucinogenic_lipstick
Über-Minister 16145 points


31/F/Ely, Cambridgeshire, United Ki Join Date: Jul 2006 | jazzsmoker said: I guess what I'm saying is, are you ever really confortable being a minority or used to it? I'm not. I still hate showing up someplace where I'm the only non-white person. Sometimes people are kind, other times i get wierd looks or feel like people are shocked to see someone that isnt white show up. Other times I've overheard people at a restaurant comment on me being the only non-white at a table full of whites (large meeting at a restaurant).
I guess I'm just curious if other minorities are "used to it", because I'm not and never will be. Even though I've been a minority all my life, ill never get used to it.
Sometimes i feel like when i'm around a bunch of whites that they might feel the dude with long hair or tattoos is the person that is different, until someone non-white shows up. Anyway I hope whites understand we are never really confortable being the minority, even though we should be used to it. But I would say that we can probably tolerate it more than they could, because you dont see whites ever showing up places where its mostly non-whites.
So you only feel like this around white people?
What about if it was a large group of asian people?
Sounds like you just like feeling like a 'minority' or is this about your perception?

 If it's white, sticky and not yours dont touch it.

Confession? Go here link [grouphug.us] | | |
|
wristband
Debater 6587 points


19/F/Greenbush, Maine Join Date: Aug 2005 | By and large, for most white people, at least in the US and most of Europe, you are not the minority. Maybe you went slumming once in a bad neighborhood or you even lived in bad neighborhoods, but truly being a minority is not a few singular instances, but a lifetime of being looked at differently, treated different, whether through blatant, rude and sometimes dangerous verbal and/or physical comments and attacks, and stereotyped by even the most liberal and 'open-minded' of media outlets, etc.
At some point in our lives, all of us will face discrimination from someone for something--because we're too poor, too rich, too smart, too dumb, live in a different part of town, wear the wrong kind of clothes, etc., but that's not racism. Racism is discrimination based on someone's ethnicity. And it's wrong and sucks butt monkeys.
 If you don't like my driving, stay off the sidewalk. *scoffs* Little kids...  | | |
Top
|