the thing is though on the other side of the coin, there is a very small minority of extremely religious users who do not do faith any favours by telling people that they are going to hell, that they are un-natural.

I think the most insulting thing has to be to tell a gay person they are choosing thier sexual orientation and they are wrong and against nature.

Its no surprise there can be some nasty backlashes.

Personally i find jokes based on gender extremely annoying and insulting.