I'd ask a completely different question to the OP on this thread......
How do I ensure I can totally AVOID getting a man's attention..?
Now, this doesn't apply to guys I know and like and socialise with generally, it only applies to "man the hunter", who thinks that two women on a night out, unaccompanied simply MUST be on the pull and are just aching to meet him. If you are such a man, then this could mean you.
Honestly, I never do anything to encourage approaches. I don't dress like a tart. I don't laugh at the jokes or accept drinks. I don't dance with them or use any sort of body language that might suggest I'm "up for it".
And yet, they STILL come on.
In fairness, some will take our polite "No thankyou" for an answer. I'm sure that some of them are really nice guys and would make a great catch for some lucky girl. I'm in no doubt that there are some great gentlemen out there and perhaps it might be nice to socialise with you, but in truth, we're not comfortable in these situations and there would be nothing in it for you, so it would be wrong of us to - even unintentionally - lead you on.
But also think of us. We don't want our evening spoiled by "guy hassle" and there are plenty of hot girls around for you to work your undoubted charms on. Just please be aware that not all girls are bowled over by them.
We try to be polite as much as possible, but sometimes our patience is pushed too far, so a good rule of thumb may be...... when a girl (or girls) say "No thank you" just think, sometimes, they actually mean it. When they say no twice, they almost certainly mean it. When they say no three times, it means GET LOST...!!!
No offence, fellas. Just saying it like it is.
Regards.
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Aug 29, 2009 @ 22:14:00
