fuzzy_hand_cuffs said:
When my parents divorced, thats when my life went to hell...I started doing drugs when I reached teenager and drinking, sex...It just destroyed me I couldnt see my dad ne more. I just dont want my kids to end up like me.
Sometimes it's for the better, and some kids handle it better.
My biological mom is an unfit parent and she hasn't been in my life since I was 3. She's shown up on my door twice within the last 2 years, but it's out of her own selfishness jsut to see what I look like.
But you know what? I am WAY better off without her.
And just because you and your husband divorce, doesn't mean they won't see him again (actually because they're so young they might not even remember him; I don't remember anything of my biological mom).
However, it is your responsibility as their mother to do what's in their best intrest, and maybe he's not a fit parent.