actually my brother committed suicide when i was 17 and we were not really that close when he was alive but my aunt was at the temple she was doing something there i forgot but she swore she could hear organs playing while she was there and she couldnt figure out where it was coming from and so she left and looked around the whole temple and there was no one there and she went back to do her work and then she could hear again and she knew that it was him and that was happy where he was at.
cuz my mom was a mess and was really worried about where he was and whether he was happy where he was at or not.
and so my aunt called my mom immediatly to tell her about it.

Maybe you have some questions or things you still would like to know/ask her, and wish that you had; fear however, kept you from it in life?

In the dream, you are actually talking (which is unusual by the way); she is shown in a decomposed state, perhaps to assure you she is indeed gone, and can no longer hurt you?

..maybe it would help too, to think on what is being discussed in the dreams...

Sorry you're having these dreams though, (assuming you still are)..it must be very hard.