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Apr 13, 2008 @ 02:45:06

#16

teddybear4593

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yes

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Apr 13, 2008 @ 02:46:35

#17

hiro

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Ya...but I luv anyway!!

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Apr 13, 2008 @ 12:03:03

#18

odie

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I find its soooooooooo inconsiderate!

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Apr 13, 2008 @ 12:12:08

#19

sheepy

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Yes.
I don't really mind that much if I don't get replies say on here - I pretty soon get the message they don't want to chat any more and give them a wide berth.

I do though have a so called friend. This person was always full of "oh what a good friend you are", and we made some online projects together. The she started not replying to e-mails. Wasn't just me - a few people started to notice. But if she didn't get a reply within 20 minutes of an e-mail - all hell would break loose, coming out with this "thought we were friends" bulls**t.

She's at it again now, so I ignore her Ignorant twat, I realise now I was just being "used", like she used loads of other people

So yes, pm's to casual aquaintances I don't mind if I don't always get replies. E-mails to people you think are friends - different matter.

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Edited: April 13, 2008 @ 12:14

Apr 13, 2008 @ 12:12:41

#20

si1501

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Could be many reasons.
They might be logged on but doing something else.

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Apr 13, 2008 @ 12:13:13

#21

sister_of_mercy

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I don't see what the big fuss is about, the person may have other things to do or be talking to someone else, replying to PM's isn't the be all and end all. Obviously it's considered polite to reply but if someone doesn't reply to me i'm not bothered, i have other things to do myself so i shouldn't expect someone to rush back with a response immediately. And if someone doesn't want to talk then people should also respect that, well that's what i think anyway.

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Apr 13, 2008 @ 12:13:27

#22

x_laura_x

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How can you tell that said person is replying to others?

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Apr 13, 2008 @ 17:08:10

#23

odie

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x_laura_x said:
How can you tell that said person is replying to others?

I had sent a pm.........and no reply, this was now 4 days ago, and that said person has been back on.

was not a friend anyway..............I had just mentioned......when you pm someone, its rude, ignorant & shows an attitude problem with that person by not responding.

got a face job done, like it?

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Apr 13, 2008 @ 17:09:11

#24

x_laura_x

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odie said:
I had sent a pm.........and no reply, this was now 4 days ago, and that said person has been back on.

was not a friend anyway..............I had just mentioned......when you pm someone, its rude, ignorant & shows an attitude problem with that person by not responding.

But you can't tell that that person is replying to other people's PMs

Geoffrey is the companies leading spokesgirraffe - I'll take that as a compliment Google

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Apr 13, 2008 @ 17:21:27

#25

odie

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people have told me this person does.

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May 09, 2008 @ 18:19:36

#26

lilbear

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sister_of_mercy said:
I don't see what the big fuss is about, the person may have other things to do or be talking to someone else, replying to PM's isn't the be all and end all. Obviously it's considered polite to reply but if someone doesn't reply to me i'm not bothered, i have other things to do myself so i shouldn't expect someone to rush back with a response immediately. And if someone doesn't want to talk then people should also respect that, well that's what i think anyway.

Agree!! there are many reason's people don't respond to PM's, but a lot of people think they are being ignorant when in fact it's the furthest from the truth. A lot of people don't respond to mine at times and I never take offense,because something may be going on that I know nothing of and we still talk to each other to this day. So I guess it's how the individual takes it, personally or understandingly.