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Jan 10, 2008 @ 15:20:07

drdarrell

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Hi, my girlfrend, had a 2 times abortion. How many times women can have an abortion? Will the doctor refuse if you have had like 2 already? Or if they do it

will they consider that you don't want anymore children and get your sterilised.

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Jan 10, 2008 @ 15:21:55

treetopflyer

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There is no forced "sterilised" But my God there are means of birth control!

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Jan 10, 2008 @ 15:22:39

jonnythan

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The law about this sort of thing varies wildly around the world.

What I'd suggest to you is to use protection and quit getting your girlfriend pregnant. She doesn't need to be going through this all the time.

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Jan 10, 2008 @ 15:23:30

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There are many reasons why a doctor would turn you away for an abortion. I believe that the more you have them, the less likely you are to be able to get pregnant again and or carry through till full term. I dont know for sure

They can turn you away if they feel you are not being sensible, using a termination as a method of contraception and i also believe that doctors are allowed to turn you away based on there personla view on abortion. If your doctor doesnt agree with it, they can say no. Also depends how far gone etc.

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Jan 10, 2008 @ 15:25:16

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There are just a number of health risk.

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Jan 10, 2008 @ 15:25:45

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jonnythan said:
The law about this sort of thing varies wildly around the world.

What I'd suggest to you is to use protection and quit getting your girlfriend pregnant. She doesn't need to be going through this all the time.

It's also her responsibilty to use protection and make sure of it.. so can't blame him only for getting her pregnant

She should be big enough to take care of herself so she doesn't need to keep going through this process..

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Jan 10, 2008 @ 15:26:55

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I have no idea what legislation there is in place in Yugoslavia. But its not particularly good for a person to have multiple abortions, perhaps you should both consider a visit to the family planning clinic?

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Jan 10, 2008 @ 15:29:06

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unspokenwords said:
It's also her responsibilty to use protection and make sure of it.. so can't blame him only for getting her pregnant

She should be big enough to take care of herself so she doesn't need to keep going through this process..

She should, but she's not here so I can't tell her anything

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Jan 10, 2008 @ 15:35:00

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drdarrell said:
Hi, my girlfrend, had a 2 times abortion. How many times women can have an abortion? Will the doctor refuse if you have had like 2 already? Or if they do it

will they consider that you don't want anymore children and get your sterilised.

Your 21 and neither you or your girlfriend has learnt of contraception?

Damn dude, stay off Sex until you do! A termination is something that no couple should ever have to go through but going through 3 or 4 is just crazy.

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Jan 10, 2008 @ 15:38:48

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jonnythan said:
She should, but she's not here so I can't tell her anything

I'm sure he would personally deliver the message for you

anyways, using protection doesn't fully mean you're not going to get pregnant, there still are those slim chances. Are you using any form of protection???

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Jan 10, 2008 @ 15:54:40

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unspokenwords said:
I'm sure he would personally deliver the message for you

anyways, using protection doesn't fully mean you're not going to get pregnant, there still are those slim chances. Are you using any form of protection???

That's none of your business

If he's using protection I doubt if his gf will be getting pregnant that often. Maybe the condoms in Yugoslavia suck

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Jan 10, 2008 @ 15:58:21

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jonnythan said:
That's none of your business

If he's using protection I doubt if his gf will be getting pregnant that often. Maybe the condoms in Yugoslavia suck

He made it our business

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