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BlueSaxman




Tucson, Arizona
#1New Post! May 15, 2012 @ 00:21:50
Ok, so the deal is, some crap happened to her and she was out of school for a while dealing with it, and now tomorrow is the last day for all her assignments to be turned in, and so while she is working/taking care of other life stresses, I'm doing her homework for her...

Is this ok? or am I just an idiot? or am I still whipped? or am I just a way to nice guy? or what?
On August 12, 2012
Leon
Moderator



San Diego, California
#2New Post! May 15, 2012 @ 00:23:24
No. No. Perhaps. Yes.
On 20 minutes ago
someone_else
Not a dude.


Deleted



American Alps, Washington
#3New Post! May 15, 2012 @ 00:25:39
I'll see that and raise you a "you should never do another person's homework."
On August 30, 2012
chaski




Miami, Florida
#4New Post! May 15, 2012 @ 00:27:14
@BlueSaxman Said

Ok, so the deal is, some crap happened to her and she was out of school for a while dealing with it, and now tomorrow is the last day for all her assignments to be turned in, and so while she is working/taking care of other life stresses, I'm doing her homework for her...

Is this ok? or am I just an idiot? or am I still whipped? or am I just a way to nice guy? or what?



No. It is not ok.
On 20 minutes ago
PaperFaces




Brunswick, Ohio
#5New Post! May 15, 2012 @ 00:27:14
Well, I don't like to tell people on things like these if I think they are being stupid cause it's kind of subjective. But I can maybe try to offer perspective. I have thought about it a bit sitting here. If I were you, it bothering me would come down to whether or not I felt used. I certainly would do my wife's homework under many many circumstances. There are many where I would not.

Do you feel used?
On May 21, 2012
Willi
this could be heaven





north in, Illinois
#6New Post! May 15, 2012 @ 00:28:20
@BlueSaxman Said

Ok, so the deal is, some crap happened to her and she was out of school for a while dealing with it, and now tomorrow is the last day for all her assignments to be turned in, and so while she is working/taking care of other life stresses, I'm doing her homework for her...

Is this ok? or am I just an idiot? or am I still whipped? or am I just a way to nice guy? or what?



you gonna make sure she learns what you did?
On June 02, 2013
vekta




,
#7New Post! May 15, 2012 @ 00:29:58
Your ex fiance?

so for one reason or another she doesn't want to marry you...anymore...

or you don't want to marry her...

either way...why would you do this?
On June 17, 2013
restoreone




, Ohio
#8New Post! May 15, 2012 @ 00:30:12
@BlueSaxman Said

Ok, so the deal is, some crap happened to her and she was out of school for a while dealing with it, and now tomorrow is the last day for all her assignments to be turned in, and so while she is working/taking care of other life stresses, I'm doing her homework for her...

Is this ok? or am I just an idiot? or am I still whipped? or am I just a way to nice guy? or what?



You need ask your self but one thing which is more important your honor or maybe getting laid.
On about 18 hours ago
BlueSaxman




Tucson, Arizona
#9New Post! May 15, 2012 @ 00:36:23
You are all awesome, and you make me happy! Just wanted to say that.

@PaperFaces Said

Well, I don't like to tell people on things like these if I think they are being stupid cause it's kind of subjective. But I can maybe try to offer perspective. I have thought about it a bit sitting here. If I were you, it bothering me would come down to whether or not I felt used. I certainly would do my wife's homework under many many circumstances. There are many where I would not.

Do you feel used?


Not exactly, but she always says she feels like she's using me, so I think its a matter of perspective.

@Willi Said

you gonna make sure she learns what you did?


She already learned it, she just doesn't have time to do the assignments because of some crap thats going on in her life right now.

@vekta Said

Your ex fiance?

so for one reason or another she doesn't want to marry you...anymore...

or you don't want to marry her...

either way...why would you do this?


You answered your own question there

@restoreone Said

You need ask your self but one thing which is more important your honor or maybe getting laid.


Ya... um there is not a chance in hell that she would ever sleep with me.
On August 12, 2012
someone_else
Not a dude.


Deleted



American Alps, Washington
#10New Post! May 15, 2012 @ 00:36:23
@Willi Said

you gonna make sure she learns what you did?



I wondered that too, which is precisely why you should never do another person's homework.
On August 30, 2012
Willi
this could be heaven





north in, Illinois
#11New Post! May 15, 2012 @ 00:39:28
Use Me - Bill Withers (1972)


On June 02, 2013
Willi
this could be heaven





north in, Illinois
#12New Post! May 15, 2012 @ 00:48:14
@BlueSaxman Said

She already learned it, she just doesn't have time to do the assignments because of some crap thats going on in her life right now.

make sure, or you cheat her.


@someone_else Said

I wondered that too, which is precisely why you should never do another person's homework.


i would think a teacher might notice a different writing style too.
it might be better to ask for more time then be a cheater.
On June 02, 2013
Dark_Tink
Think off-center





, Canada
#13New Post! May 15, 2012 @ 01:07:03
A big fat "NO" to doing her homework.


Quote:
Not exactly, but she always says she feels like she's using me, so I think its a matter of perspective.

She can't feel that bad about having you do it if she asks you to do it. I think she's just trying to see how much she can get you to do for her.
On 32 minutes ago
sAeGeSpAeNe
Part-time Nidologist





The other Bristol..., Connecti
#14New Post! May 15, 2012 @ 01:26:40
@BlueSaxman Said

Ok, so the deal is, some crap happened to her and she was out of school for a while dealing with it, and now tomorrow is the last day for all her assignments to be turned in, and so while she is working/taking care of other life stresses, I'm doing her homework for her...

Is this ok? or am I just an idiot? or am I still whipped? or am I just a way to nice guy? or what?



You are behaving like a whipped idiot, and you're being nice about it. Your behavior is yours alone to judge, and after a sufficient passage of time, you will find yourself to be content with your past, or excited about forthcoming changes from your past, inept handling of life's little situations.
On about 4 hours ago
BlueSaxman




Tucson, Arizona
#15New Post! May 15, 2012 @ 01:29:10
@Willi Said

Use Me - Bill Withers (1972)




I like, thank you

@Willi Said

make sure, or you cheat her.

i would think a teacher might notice a different writing style too.
it might be better to ask for more time then be a cheater.


They are online quiz's actually, no writing involved, I dont think she would let me do that anyway, she has 0 confidence in my writing abilities.

@Dark_Tink Said

A big fat "NO" to doing her homework.

She can't feel that bad about having you do it if she asks you to do it. I think she's just trying to see how much she can get you to do for her.


Honestly this is one of the first things that she has actually come to me about, usually its the other way around, I'll offer to do something, she will say no, I'll keep offering and she will eventually let me help but feel bad about it because she will feel like she's using me.
On August 12, 2012
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