kissing & tongues

Allllrighty, so I was with my last boyfriend for a little over 2 years, and we NEVER used tongues while kissing. Mmy new boyfriend insists that's the way you're supposed to do it...but it grosses me out. I love kissing as much as the next person, but you don't HAVE to do it with your tongue, do you?? Come on, now...

You dont have to do anything you dont want to. Have you told him it makes you a little uncomfortable?

Tell him, that's what started the practice that the female praying mantis now follows, of exhibiting her wrath by biting off the head of her mate. Maybe he'll take the hint.

Yes, you HAVE to do it; and not only do you have to, but so far down their throat goes it, until the other person gags.
Once you have touched the other's innards in that way, only then are you truly intimate.

Nah, haven't told him. Don't want him to think I think he's gross. lol. But yeah, I'll tell him.

You can just say you have a strong gag reflex so would like to take that part slowly. If he loves you, he will take it as slow as you need to. Dont do what you dont care for, its a bad road to go down

This is true

It's really not so bad, as long as you get tongue, and not a lot of saliva with it.

Depends how they do it.

Glomming on and shoving a tongue down to play tonsil hockey isn't that fun.

Gentle probing exploration, now that can be fun.

If he is in the group of the former, my condolences. You will either have to train him to kiss properly, fake it or ditch his sorry ass.

If he is in the latter, then you need to explain to him that you're not used to it and he needs to give you time. And if he's not willing, then you really should ditch his sorry a** because he's an inconsiderate selfish dork.

Eeewwwwww
Some of them,.. looks like they won't need BOB anymore.

You just tell him:

"No no, Mr. Moo Face! You save that for the days that my hemorrhoids are flarin' - when it comes to mouth to mouth I like soft, sweet and gentle with little to no slobber and mucus."

Ayup, it would be great to be locked in a room with all of them and a barrel of chocolate syrup.

I hear ya.

And agree with you.

But most do it the nasty way.

But don't do it if you really don't go for it. Don't stoop to anything you're not for anyone's sake.