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EoWyN
Kitten Licker





Under your bed,
#1New Post! Apr 05, 2012 @ 20:59:19
So Awhile back I went into my normal Blogroom and some guy started talking to me. asking me to talk to him on skype, now this guy and I Had been friends and he was friends with tons of people. so its not like I did not know who he was.

Anyways down the road he told me I WANT YOU! I told him you know I am married. now we can be friends but that is it. he says Fine. thats coolat
so we continue being friends

I don't talk to him for awhile then he ask can we skype? so I get on with him and talk to him. a few days later he says I WANT YOU! so I reminded him, I am married! He says I know but I still do.

To this day he is constantly telling me that. I dont like being mean to people so I dont know how to tell him to bug the f*** off because he freaks me out. My husband of course knows about it. he laughs and gets all cocky when I tell him this guy wants me or whatever. I am no Beauty so I do not see why it happens I am just myself to people. I am not trying to be cocky at all either..I just think he is strange

Should I just delete and block this guy? I have never flirted back with him because I know its wrong and plus i do not like to flirt with other men.I have not led this guy on so I do not know why he presses on!

My husband and I do not get a long 100% but I would still never cheat on him or flirt with other men. I do not know what to do. because I never do anything other than be me

Advice?
On 33 minutes ago
BozieFozie
Life's a Beach





Paradise, Florida
#2New Post! Apr 05, 2012 @ 21:01:32
@EoWyN Said

So Awhile back I went into my normal Blogroom and some guy started talking to me. asking me to talk to him on skype, now this guy and I Had been friends and he was friends with tons of people. so its not like I did not know who he was.

Anyways down the road he told me I WANT YOU! I told him you know I am married. now we can be friends but that is it. he says Fine. thats coolat
so we continue being friends

I don't talk to him for awhile then he ask can we skype? so I get on with him and talk to him. a few days later he says I WANT YOU! so I reminded him, I am married! He says I know but I still do.

To this day he is constantly telling me that. I dont like being mean to people so I dont know how to tell him to bug the f*** off because he freaks me out. My husband of course knows about it. he laughs and gets all cocky when I tell him this guy wants me or whatever. I am no Beauty so I do not see why it happens I am just myself to people. I am not trying to be cocky at all either..I just think he is strange

Should I just delete and block this guy? I have never flirted back with him because I know its wrong and plus i do not like to flirt with other men.I have not led this guy on so I do not know why he presses on!

My husband and I do not get a long 100% but I would still never cheat on him or flirt with other men. I do not know what to do. because I never do anything other than be me

Advice?


Stop communicating with him....he's obviously an insensitive turd that isn't respecting your boundaries!
On May 21, 2013
Leon
Moderator



San Diego, California
#3New Post! Apr 05, 2012 @ 21:02:21
Yes, delete and block. You can tell him why you need to do this before you do. You shouldn't be talking to him, because, while you see it as a friendship, he does not. Show some respect for your husband.
On about 6 hours ago
Electric_Banana




Pastel Avon Suburbia, New Zeal
#4New Post! Apr 05, 2012 @ 21:14:10
It's one thing to tell a friend "Hey, I feel for or admire you because of *this*, *this* and *this* and if we were both single I'd happily date you if I had the opportunity." because it's sharing appreciation and notice of someone else that will remind them that there are many outside of them that love them also and it is those testaments that help people to feel good about themselves and carry on.

But

If he keeps persisting like he's expecting you to abandon your relationship that's not respectful to your husband like this guy regards your hubby as a chump or something. And that's the type of s*** that used to piss me off when I dating when I was younger.
On about 4 hours ago
Leon
Moderator



San Diego, California
#5New Post! Apr 05, 2012 @ 21:18:58
Not only that, you are leading him on. He sees your willingness to talk to him as an indication that you don't mind hearing that he wants you.
On about 6 hours ago
sister_of_mercy




London, United Kingdom
#6New Post! Apr 05, 2012 @ 21:22:26
Yeah just block and delete him. The joys of the internet.
On about 5 hours ago
EoWyN
Kitten Licker





Under your bed,
#7New Post! Apr 05, 2012 @ 21:24:48
@Electric_Banana Said

It's one thing to tell a friend "Hey, I feel for or admire you because of *this*, *this* and *this* and if we were both single I'd happily date you if I had the opportunity." because it's sharing appreciation and notice of someone else that will remind them that there are many outside of them that love them also and it is those testaments that help people to feel good about themselves and carry on.

But

If he keeps persisting like he's expecting you to abandon your relationship that's not respectful to your husband like this guy regards your hubby as a chump or something. And that's the type of s*** that used to piss me off when I dating when I was younger.



I deleted him. He just creeps me out! I am done with creepy men hitting on me.

Now pretty girls I do not mind
On 33 minutes ago
EoWyN
Kitten Licker





Under your bed,
#8New Post! Apr 05, 2012 @ 21:26:22
@Leon Said

Not only that, you are leading him on. He sees your willingness to talk to him as an indication that you don't mind hearing that he wants you.



I agree with you. Honestly I Do not like being told I am pretty haha weird I know but thats how I feel

I only want my husband to tell me that
On 33 minutes ago
Leon
Moderator



San Diego, California
#9New Post! Apr 05, 2012 @ 21:30:03
@EoWyN Said

I agree with you. Honestly I Do not like being told I am pretty haha weird I know but thats how I feel

I only want my husband to tell me that


And no better way to convey that by doing what you just did in deleting him. Good for you.
On about 6 hours ago
Electric_Banana




Pastel Avon Suburbia, New Zeal
#10New Post! Apr 05, 2012 @ 21:34:24
@EoWyN Said

I deleted him. He just creeps me out! I am done with creepy men hitting on me.

Now pretty girls I do not mind



That's the good thing about being male - We don't have to worry about girls being in our hair if we don't want them to be because they aren't as aggressive.

Makes dating much easier too to be the gender that does the choosing.
On about 4 hours ago
xLETHAL_VIXENx
Logical Alien





Your pants, United States (gen
#11New Post! Apr 05, 2012 @ 22:01:48
Men, they can be creepy.
On May 12, 2013
ThePainefulTruth
Verum est Deus


Deleted



Peoria, Arizona
#12New Post! Apr 05, 2012 @ 23:25:42
@EoWyN Said
Advice?


"Tell him to 'bug the f*** off because you freak me out'."

And even that may not work if he's a stalker, which.....
On May 06, 2013
sTreetAngeL
root tedt ree





in a paradox,
#13New Post! Apr 05, 2012 @ 23:25:47
@Electric_Banana Said

It's one thing to tell a friend "Hey, I feel for or admire you because of *this*, *this* and *this* and if we were both single I'd happily date you if I had the opportunity." because it's sharing appreciation and notice of someone else that will remind them that there are many outside of them that love them also and it is those testaments that help people to feel good about themselves and carry on.

But

If he keeps persisting like he's expecting you to abandon your relationship that's not respectful to your husband like this guy regards your hubby as a chump or something. And that's the type of s*** that used to piss me off when I dating when I was younger.


I agree totally with this!

@Leon Said

Not only that, you are leading him on. He sees your willingness to talk to him as an indication that you don't mind hearing that he wants you.



Agree. Also, she should have at least, I think, let the guy know this time, since he showed he doesn't respect her boundaries by asking yet a second time... that if he ever says it again he can f*** off...
She should be just as insensitive as he is being with her. And make the words sting; so that there is no doubt in his mind or confusion.
On May 18, 2013
ThePainefulTruth
Verum est Deus


Deleted



Peoria, Arizona
#14New Post! Apr 05, 2012 @ 23:28:09
@xLETHAL_VIXENx Said

Men, they can be creepy.


...and women can be b****y, and the wheels on the bus go round and round.
On May 06, 2013
xLETHAL_VIXENx
Logical Alien





Your pants, United States (gen
#15New Post! Apr 05, 2012 @ 23:38:34
@ThePainefulTruth Said

...and women can be b****y, and the wheels on the bus go round and round.



Uh, okay.... I don't see the point of your remark, has nothing to do with this thread.
On May 12, 2013
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