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EoWyN On about 3 hours ago
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#1New Post! Mar 29, 2012 @ 16:18:09
So A while Back I had to call the maintenance man to come fix my sink.
he was so nice to me in the begining . while he was working he asked me some questions about me. we ended up talking about me being bisexual. He asked me if I sleep with girls and I said No I just really like them I told him I wanted to find the right girl if infact I did want to sleep with a woman. he then ask so does your husband let you sleep with men? I said no. and he frowns. he told me well that is not fair. you should be allowed to. I Told him yeah..I do not want to sleep with another man. I am not to keen on men really. I Only want to sleep with my husband. and he goes on to say Well that is still not fair. you should sleep with another man if you want to. he should not keep you from it. he told me that his girl would go crazy if he even looked at another girl. she is always calling him and texting him.

I have lived here 7 months and every time since that day I see him he avoids me. while walking down the side walk he sees me he will take another path. way out of his way. when I speak to him about some work i need done at the house. he refuses to look at me. or he has some one else come do the job. I am unsure of what his problem is. I am not seeking friendship from him but when I need work done I expect to be helped not Ignored!!
Just a bit ago they had to come in and check the plumbing in the apartment. he came and brought another guy with him. the other guy spoke to me but he did not. not that I care. but I told them when they left. Have a good day guys!! He looked away and Mumbled you too..

There are many other people on this place that talk to me and ask how I am doing. He is the only one who dose what ever it takes to avoid me
I am not sure why. I have not spoken to him about it. I do not think I should either.
rosexthorn On July 23, 2014




Winnipeg, Canada
#2New Post! Mar 29, 2012 @ 16:32:58
He's probably very ashamed of the conversation he had with you and can't look you in the eye anymore because of his insecurity of you may tell his mate about the convo and hopes that if he can avoid you all things go away.

This is all his problem as the questions he had asked you were above typical conversation and was none of his business and basically in that convo he was hoping you would sleep with him perhaps?
sTreetAngeL On July 27, 2014
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#3New Post! Mar 29, 2012 @ 19:19:43
Yes, what rosexthorn said; and the fact that it was very clear, well at least to me it was, that he was strongly hinting/suggesting that you sleep with him.
To my way of thinking, he confirms this by avoiding you after the fact; as he is ashamed at being told straight out that you want/wish, to sleep with no other man other than your husband.
offbeat On October 12, 2014




london, United Kingdom
#4New Post! Mar 29, 2012 @ 20:37:35
i too think he was making a suggestion to see if you took the hint , however, i don't think he is ashamed .... i think he knows what he is doing ..... you see, because he is deliberately avoiding you .... he is actually sticking in your head ... his behaviour is bothering you ... he is intriguing you ... he is getting to you so much that you feel compelled to bring the situation to a forum for discussion ..... the idea is to get you to feel slightly irritated by being avoided ... so , you will eventually try to reconnect with him ... now you know what he is doing .... you can just forget about him ... err, if of course you really want to ....
EoWyN On about 3 hours ago
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#5New Post! Mar 29, 2012 @ 20:48:09
@offbeat Said

i too think he was making a suggestion to see if you took the hint , however, i don't think he is ashamed .... i think he knows what he is doing ..... you see, because he is deliberately avoiding you .... he is actually sticking in your head ... his behaviour is bothering you ... he is intriguing you ... he is getting to you so much that you feel compelled to bring the situation to a forum for discussion ..... the idea is to get you to feel slightly irritated by being avoided ... so , you will eventually try to reconnect with him ... now you know what he is doing .... you can just forget about him ... err, if of course you really want to ....



If I was Interested in this guy, which I am not, He is not my type lol he looks way to much like my uncle but he has a high pitched voice, if anything I'd like to meet his girl friend LOL
offbeat On October 12, 2014




london, United Kingdom
#6New Post! Mar 29, 2012 @ 20:51:06
@EoWyN Said

If I was Interested in this guy, which I am not, He is not my type lol he looks way to much like my uncle but he has a high pitched voice, if anything I'd like to meet his girl friend LOL



ok fair enough .... i accept what you say ... but aren't you a little intrigued as to why you need to know why he is avoiding you ?
EoWyN On about 3 hours ago
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#7New Post! Mar 29, 2012 @ 20:55:22
@offbeat Said

ok fair enough .... i accept what you say ... but aren't you a little intrigued as to why you need to know why he is avoiding you ?


Yeah, I was thinking that it was because he gets s*** from his girl if he looks anywhere else and I just look a long with my husband. we check out girls together..


I mean that fool just drops his head when I come around. damn near runs into things..
treebee On September 13, 2014
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London, United Kingdom
#8New Post! Mar 29, 2012 @ 20:59:08
A lot of men are socially inept. Well a lot of women are too

Probably he had a conversation with you while feeling cocky and now is a bit embarrassed by it.

EIther that or your husband threatened to break his legs.
Hot_Rod On March 30, 2012

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#9New Post! Mar 29, 2012 @ 21:51:47
Maybe he cross-dresses, and fancied his chances. You never know, lol.
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