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Electric_Banana Pastel Avon Suburbia, New Zeal | #31  Dec 10, 2011 @ 06:44:33What I mean is, if a guy loses his girlfriend it might be a long while before another bus rolls around. For girls, they usually have about fifty men waiting in their chat clients and several calling on the phone asking if "Chump" is still there with them. | ||||||
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| townie_guy Deleted  , United Kingdom | #32 Dec 10, 2011 @ 06:48:06Aint being funny love but blokes aint any differnet. By the way where in NZ are you from I was born in wellington and lived in Upper hut for 8 years. | ||||||
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| Jennifer1984 Olympic Junkie  Penzance, United Kingdom | #33 Dec 11, 2011 @ 18:48:28 @Leon Said  Some men do, and, judging from both the OP's posts and Jennifer's, I sense that they are victims of these kind of men. So, my sympathies to the both of you. Incorrect assumption in respect to myself, Leon. I have never been any sort of victim of any man. I am most determined that I never will be, not without one hell of a fight..!! However, I do empathise with women who have suffered and have learned much from contact, conversation with and study of those who have. Women, when they talk in confidence with each other (and we're better at keeping confidences than you may think) will often open up and say things to trusted friends and relatives that they would never repeat in front of any man. That "Girl Talk" that is often derided, may not be as shallow and meaningless as some may believe. Empathy and female awareness doesn't necessarily need life experience to be understanding and intense. . | ||||||
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| townie_guy Deleted , United Kingdom | #34 Dec 11, 2011 @ 21:45:31Ive always thought girl talk wasnt shallow but a bit too in depth. They go into mucher greater detail about certain stuff than a bloke would. | ||||||
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| Electric_Banana Pastel Avon Suburbia, New Zeal | #35 Dec 11, 2011 @ 21:51:17 @townie_guy Said Aint being funny love but blokes aint any differnet. By the way where in NZ are you from I was born in wellington and lived in Upper hut for 8 years. Actually from the US - I moved over here about seven years ago and have been residing in Wanganui. I'd say that over 70% of the residents in this city are over age 70 and within the next decade this whole city is going to be a ghost town. The people in the 25 to 45 age group usually pick up and move to Aussie. | ||||||
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Jesswaa , Australia | #36 Dec 12, 2011 @ 00:11:43 @DivineBeautii Said "In reality ppl don't need to know your suffering it just attracts Negative energy and shows how pathetic weak & stupid at least thats how others look at it ... Because one minute you post your so in love your perfect the next day you post how he cheated AGAIN then the next you're happily in love like nothing had ever happen...." For anyone who assumed I felt women are pathetic and or weak that isn't the case i stated a** above thats what ppl would assume... Just simply suggesting some things [really personal things] shouldn't be shared online thier are big consquences to posting these your business online Exactly.. Especially info that will just kill all happiness with whoever reads it or is/was involved... Oversharing is real haha | ||||||
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DorkySupergirl , Canada | #37 Dec 12, 2011 @ 00:19:20I think its normal to share things when we are struggling or going through a difficult situation. Sometimes we need advice, sometimes we just need an ear and to vent. However, I for on do not feel the need to hear and see every benign detail of someones relationship on the internet. Some things should just be private and perhaps the partner does not want all the nitty gritty details of the relationship out there for all the world to see. | ||||||
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| sTreetAngeL root tedt ree  in a paradox, | #38 Dec 12, 2011 @ 00:29:31 You really glorify women in your mind!In reality, we need you guys as much as you need us. Don't ever think or believe any different. | ||||||
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offbeat london, United Kingdom | #41 Dec 12, 2011 @ 13:58:20 @sTreetAngeL Said You really glorify women in your mind!In reality, we need you guys as much as you need us. Don't ever think or believe any different. that's a lovely thing to say .. thanks street  | ||||||
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DivineBeautii , New York | #42 Dec 12, 2011 @ 14:06:01 @Sparklegirl Said Sometimes in times like that though people react differently to how they would od in their usual every day life. For me (any of you who have me on facebook can verify this!) my status is usually about how much im missing my better half or how sweet he is, my deadlines are fast approaching or something to do with food To me, they are the more acceptable things I would post there- if he ever did hurt me the only thing I imagine facebook would have on it would be a change in relationship status. The very personal stuff is posted to deliberately hurt or humiliate the other person as they are feeling the same- human nature for some pople but its not my style. When something happened to me, my first thought was not 'broadcast it on facebook' it was more how can I keep this to myself without other people ever having to find out and get hurt Yeah not my style either personally no offense to anyone who does I think its very childish to post personal thing to humilate someone or that nonsense of ppl looking threw other pages of ppl they dislike to then talk smack but hey to each its own.. but yeah I get it so ppl vent threw these sites but all I'm saying is that there are consquences so when the public reaction isn't what ppl would have expected or assume they shouldn't be mad because they put their business out there.. So when someone put them down or the neightborhood is whispering about their cheating spouse ppl should blame themselves not the ppl.. | ||||||
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Rini , Georgia | #43 Dec 12, 2011 @ 14:59:18no I don't broadcast them because personally it isn't my family's business who I am dating. I usually bug people like spoony in instant message or something instead of posting it on my facebook or twitter feed. It does get annoying and actually I've had to cut down for fear of my friends getting annoyed with me too. (ask spoony.  ) I can't be myself around my family anyway since I'm the black sheep of the family..and I have to have a secret facebook account if I want my friends to know something that my family doesn't need to know. Lol. | ||||||
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| Sparklegirl LL.M  Cumbria, United Kingdom | #44 Dec 12, 2011 @ 15:07:47 @DivineBeautii Said Yeah not my style either personally no offense to anyone who does I think its very childish to post personal thing to humilate someone or that nonsense of ppl looking threw other pages of ppl they dislike to then talk smack but hey to each its own.. but yeah I get it so ppl vent threw these sites but all I'm saying is that there are consquences so when the public reaction isn't what ppl would have expected or assume they shouldn't be mad because they put their business out there.. So when someone put them down or the neightborhood is whispering about their cheating spouse ppl should blame themselves not the ppl.. Some stuff is best off kept behind closed doors but some folk will still see that as their only outlet. Each to their own,my stream seems to be more course related boring stuff though | ||||||
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| Rini , Georgia | #45 Dec 12, 2011 @ 15:10:00 @Sparklegirl Said Some stuff is best off kept behind closed doors but some folk will still see that as their only outlet. Each to their own,my stream seems to be more course related boring stuff though I agree. The internet is my only outlet when my family upsets me.  | ||||||
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